When Do We Cut the Cord!

When is the right time to tell your kids they need to start being more independent?

I think in this day and age full of divorce and split families we are all so worried our kids will not like us if we do not do all the things they want. Are we really helping or just doing more harm to already dysfunctional children. We are enabling them from being functional.

So who are we really hurting? I know we can never stop being a parent but when do we stop feeling like we have to make everyone happy when the truth is they do not really care about any one but themselves.

Hope the first week of 2012 has been treating you well.

Starting off the New Year Right

Well Jan 3 and I think that 2012 will be a great year. I love where we live , we went for a 2 hour trail walk with the dogs and had to strip off layers.. Bike riding tomorrow if the weather holds up.

I am starting a new program Isagenix , I hope this will help jump start my weight goals along with the other programs I am in. My husband and I are doing this together we thought that might be safer than just one.. we can both be cranky together...

I am also going to look at some home based business ideas, I am thinking something to do with event planning would be great, I love working with people.

It is really nice to have life go back to normal, kids all in school and house back to a normal dull roar. I look forward to a new year with new challanges and changes.

Happy New Year....

A new year is upon us, what will your resolutions be???

I know for me a big one will be to live my own life and not let the drama of others in my life be my problem. I think this will help me to clear my mind, body and soul of clutter.

I do feel stuck in a rutt right now so wish me luck digging out.

Happy New Year to everyone and my 2012 be one of your best years yet.

The Holiday Season

Well we survived another Christmas, and no matter what we seem to over spend! I am not sure why we let this happen , as none of us in this family are in need of anything.

I am glad it is over and looking forward to a bright 2012, I want to move forward this year and start finding out who I am and what I want to be. I am not going let everyone elses drama get in my way.

I have started selling a couple of products for health and wellness so if you are intrested call me and we can talk. I am determined to get down to my goal weight... it is getting closer every day and I managed to not gain any over the christmas feasts.

Happy New Year to all..

Thanksgiving 2011

Well we made it through another Thanksgiving, this year we had many special guests, with the help of my daughter we created a wonderful feast.

I am still struggling with discovering me again, but I think that everyday I am choosing to discover myself.

I am reading a wonderful book called the power of belief, the mind is an amazing tool and I am going to put mine to good use.

A very busy week ahead of us in this house, I hope to accomplish many wonderful things.

The Fear of Moving forward.

Why are we afraid to fail?? or I know I am , I have not worked outside of the house for 18 months. I really thought this would be fun, I would get out there and try new things, explore options for a home business. Instead I am frozen by fear, and this in turn is taking me backwards.

I did not want this to happen ; ( . I am getting so much advice from others that I have no idea what I would really like to do, the one thing I do know is that I want to do something that makes me feel fufulled and happy to have been part of this world every day , also that I can go to bed at night feeling good about who I am .

I will be researching on ways to make this happen as I would also like my husband to be home alot more than he currently is. So ideas are always welcome.

Summer to date

It has been a while since I have had time to do this... I think maybe it was the energy more so.

I find I let myself get caught up in what everyone wants not what I would like for myself.

I think this is making me figure out what I want to do more difficult as I let everyone's suggestions be the one... When did I loose my ability to think? I know it is there someplace just have to go on a hunt for it again.

When does the ex drama go away? It seems that even when the kids grow up some ugly remnant of our past lives pop's up to greet us.

Well time to move on to something new and exciting September will be my month to shine and rejoin the world of the sucessfull.